Perhaps you’re like me: drives a EV, recycles, conserves energy and uses all natural products in the household. But now that your big day is coming up, what about your wedding? Perhaps with all the planning involved, you didn’t think of the ecological impact a wedding and reception can have or perhaps you thought it might turn off your friends and family who are not as Eco-conscious as you are. Put your worries to rest and follow us on the green trail with suggestions for your Eco-friendly wedding.

Paper:
In a wedding, paper is used for everything from the invitations to the party favors to being a part of centerpieces and even the bouquet. Yet you are an Eco-minded person so you want your wedding to reflect that. One way is to use 100% or partially recycled paper, for all the party favors and other things, which not only cuts down on paper waste but also makes the statement to your guests that everything old is new again. Another way to cut down on waste is to use the Internet. Utilizing the power of the many websites for registering guests, listing the flow of events from the wedding to the reception, and making the initial announcement to your family and friends via mass e-mail not only drastically cuts down on paper waste but also reaches far more people in less time and saves you money in the end.

Floral:
Flowers play such a huge part in weddings, not only in the bouquet but also in centerpieces and even the tiara of the veil. One thing that can help is to get your flowers locally. Having them brought from another state or even another country is unwise as they wouldn’t be native to where your wedding is stationed. Another thing involving flowers is that you can give them away as favors to your guests. Try having seedlings gift wrapped with 100% recycled paper at each table with a “Thank You” note attached. Or having them mailed to everyone after the wedding and reception.

Wedding Bands:
No, I’m not talking about a mariachi band, but the wedding bands you both put on each other’s fingers. I’m sure by now you’ve heard of “blood diamonds”, the diamonds that are mined in parts of Africa that are the result of slave labor. How can anyone in good conscience support such an abomination by buying a diamond from anyone that sells them from such misery? Fortunately there are alternatives such as diamonds that come from community mines or even man-made diamonds. Also, there are bands that are created from recycled gold and platinum and even wooden bands that you can both purchase.

Wedding Dresses:
Ok, you’re probably wondering why this is here. Often, it takes alot to manufacture a dress… especially a wedding dress. So what does an eco-conscious person do about this? Why buy or rent a used wedding dress! There are many places you can get one from, like Brides Against Breast Cancer or the tried and true method of borrowing your mom’s wedding dress. As well, there are alternative fabrics you can find for your dress such as those made with hemp or organic cotton. Once the day is over, please donate your dress to the Brides Against Breast Cancer or save it to give to your own daughter when it’s her turn.

Mazel Tov!!!

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Congratulations to all of our friends in the LGBT community who can now participate in the act of marriage in New York City. We at Shandelee Lake Inn wish you all the best and would like to do our part by giving you a few places around the city to choose from when deciding on who and how to officiate your ceremony.

First up are the fine people over at New York Marriages. One look at their website will tell you that these guys know what they are doing. They have all the facts and prerequisites on-point and will help guide you softly into the comfort and joy of your wedding day with the ease and skill needed to make sure that everything you need is on the up-and-up for your big moment.

Next is The Center (the LGBT Community Center of NYC) on West 13th street in NYC. The Center, while not specifically a place for you and your significant other to go to get your actual license, is the closest thing and is noted here because of it’s vast amount of resources available to gay and lesbian couples; from the basic information about marriage licenses and what it takes to obtain one in New York City to a very detailed breakdown of the legal rights same sex couples are entitled to under the new law.

Another great officiant here in New York City is Kim Worley; an interfaith minister whose weddings have been featured in the NY Times, The Knot, and Brides.com as well as a fairly lengthy list of client quotes greatly approving of her services. You cancheck her out over at www.officiantnyc.com

But probably your best bet to find the person for your wedding is the marriage officiant database, where you will find every type of officiant of every faith that will allow gay marriage. No matter what situation you are in, you will find the right person for the job to officiate your special day.

And remember, Shandelee Lake Inn and chez vous catering and party rental are here for YOU! When it’s time to celebrate your special day, let us help you in planning out a wedding that will delight even the most-discerning of tastes. We’ll create the atmosphere you desire in your home, office, under a tent, or you may choose from one of our exclusive party spaces. Contact us today for more info!

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Country Style Weddings

June 12, 2011
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A wedding is a beautiful thing. Your parents and other family members come from miles around to bear witness to your nuptials. Your best friend is there at your side and the pastor or priest is ready to officiate things, making this truly a blessed day. But what about the way everything looks? What about [...]

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Country Style Wedding Dresses

June 12, 2011
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Ok, you’ve just got done planning your dream country style wedding. You ordered the daisies, sunflowers, checked the weather forecast for your big day and have hay the bales and wagon wheels ready to let folks know which aisle to be seated in. But what’s that? You forgot about your gown? Ok, calm down and [...]

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Bed & Breakfast – A Romantic Getaway

June 12, 2011
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Have you ever wanted to just get away from it all, just you and your significant other? Or are you planning your honeymoon and thinking of just where to land so you and your newly minted spouse can not only spend alone time together but also be tourists and sight-see? A romantic retreat is something [...]

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Benefits of Detoxing – Better Sex, Better Mind, Better Health!

May 5, 2011
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“Your body is your temple.” We’ve all heard this multiple times from many people in some aspect of our lives and though we may know it to be true, we, as humans, can be some stubborn bums and choose to not heed these words of wisdom. Your body is your temple because it houses your [...]

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What is a Bed & Breakfast?

April 14, 2011
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Ever wanted to just get away from the fast pace, bright lights and big city and just take life at a snail’s pace, no matter if it’s only for a week or a weekend?  Wouldn’t it be grand if there was a place where you could unwind, no stresses with chores or needing to re-supply [...]

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How Corporate Retreats Can Revive Your Business

April 6, 2011
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Corporate retreats have been reported to boost employee productivity – way more than a regular paid vacation. We’ve all seen it and been there: loss of morale, stress and high tension and sluggish employees. With no vacation in sight nor, for some, the personal prospect of one, many employees are becoming less and less productive [...]

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Photos of Ian & Kathleya by Hillary Harvey

September 1, 2010
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Ian and Kathleya were married in July at Shandelee Lake Inn, but 2 months prior to that photographer Hillary Harvey made her way to the Inn to photograph the  engagement couple. The lake was a short walk through some beautiful woods, and when we got there, it was breath-taking.  This is where we’ll do some [...]

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Woodstock Wedding at Shandelee

August 25, 2010
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Shandelee Lake Inn. This hip, chic, and stylish country inn is just mere miles from the original site of the 1969 Woodstock Music Festival. Many newbies do not know that the festival didn’t actually happen in Woodstock. One month before the planned date of the festival, August 15th 1969, the venue was changed to the farm of Max Yasgur, a 600 acre dairy farm in the town of Bethel.

In a recent post to Rock ‘n’ Roll bride, their editor Kat highlighted a simulated Woodstock style wedding

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